Elopement Script – Crafting Your Perfect Wedding Ceremony Words
What Is an Elopement Script?
An elopement script is the personalized wording spoken during your intimate wedding ceremony.
Unlike traditional weddings, elopements allow for a completely customized ceremony that reflects your love story, values, and vision for your marriage. Whether you're looking for something romantic, adventurous, or lighthearted, your elopement script sets the tone for your special day.
Why Your Elopement Script Matters
Since elopements often focus on the couple rather than a large audience, your vows and ceremony words become even more meaningful. A well-crafted elopement script can:
✅ Capture the essence of your love story.
✅ Set the mood, whether emotional, playful, or deeply personal.
✅ Make your elopement feel uniquely yours.
✅ Ensure that your ceremony flows smoothly, even without a traditional structure.
Elopement Ceremony Script Example
1. Welcome & Introduction:
“We are gathered here today in this breathtaking place, surrounded by nature’s beauty, to celebrate the love and commitment of [Partner 1] and [Partner 2]. Love is an adventure, and today marks the beginning of the greatest journey of all—your life together as partners, best friends, and soulmates.”
2. Love Story (Optional)
“Every great love story has a beginning, and yours started when [short story of how they met or a meaningful moment]. Through laughter, challenges, and countless beautiful moments, you have built a love that is strong, adventurous, and truly one-of-a-kind.”
3. Exchange of Vows
(Couples can write their own vows or use pre-written ones.)
“Now, [Partner 1] and [Partner 2] will share their vows, promising to stand beside each other in all of life’s adventures.”
(Example of personal vows:)
“I promise to support you, to lift you up when life gets heavy, and to always stand by your side, no matter where life takes us.”
4. Ring Exchange
“These rings are a symbol of your love, a reminder that wherever life takes you, you are always connected. As you place this ring on each other’s finger, let it be a promise of forever.”
(Both partners repeat:)
“With this ring, I give you my heart, my soul, and my promise to walk this journey with you.”
5. Declaration & First Kiss
“By the power of your love and commitment, and in the presence of this incredible landscape, I now pronounce you [husband&wife/partners/married]. You may now seal this promise with a kiss!”
(First kiss, followed by cheers, laughter, or a joyful moment together.)
How to Personalize Your Elopement Script
Your ceremony should reflect who you are as a couple. Here are some ways to customize your elopement script:
Include personal stories – How you met, a favorite memory, or what makes your love unique.
Write your own vows – Speak from the heart, even if it's short and simple.
Incorporate cultural traditions – Handfasting, unity rituals, or meaningful phrases.
Add music or readings – A special song, a poem, or words from a favorite book.
Do You Need an Officiant for an Elopement?
If you are planning to get officially married in Iceland, the legal requirements are that you need an Icelandic officiant to officiate the ceremony. Some couples choose to sign their paperwork in their home country and still have the officiant for their symbolic ceremony on their elopement day.
Ready to Plan Your Perfect Elopement?
Hey, I’m Lisa McWhirter Iceland adventure elopement photographer.
Nice to meet you!
You're planning to elope or have a wedding in Iceland. Planning overseas can feel overwhelming. I’m here to make sure it will feel exciting and photograph the day that will make you laugh, emotional and cry happy tears.
Do you want to have a head-start on your special day in Iceland? Schedule a free consultation call below.
Step 1: Find a spot in the calendar and book the call. It will be on Google Meet.
Step 2: Check your email as I will reply within 24 hours.
Step 3: Bring your ideas and questions to the online call and let’s make a plan. These calls typically last 45 minutes, so book time into your calendar.
